Diana Penty Refuses to Fit In: 'I Was Exhausted Trying To Be Someone Else; Now I’m Just Being Me'

The 'Cocktail' star, now leading Prime Video’s 'Do You Wanna Partner' alongside Tamannaah Bhatia, opens up about rejecting industry pressure to be more “likeable”

Anushka Halve
By Anushka Halve
LAST UPDATED: SEP 15, 2025, 14:18 IST|5 min read
Diana Penty
Diana Penty

In the early episodes of Amazon Prime Video’s Do You Wanna Partner, Diana Penty’s Anahita Makujina — a sharp finance executive — is told to her face that her smile is what helps close deals. Reductionist? Absolutely. Unheard of? Sadly not.

It’s a moment that reflects what many women face, onscreen and off. And for Penty, who stars opposite Tamannaah Bhatia in the buddy-comedy series, it struck a chord.

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In a conversation with The Hollywood Reporter India, Penty spoke about her own journey of refusing to let other people’s expectations define her. “When I started out in the industry, there were all these different people from different places telling me how I needed to be in order to survive,” she said.

“I’ve always been a bit shy, a bit of an introvert, not much of a people’s person, per se. So I tried to take their advice — be easier to talk to, walk into a room a certain way, say the right things. I attempted it, and after many years I realised it was such an effort. It was exhausting to be somebody that you’re not.”

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Her realisation came with a dramatic shift in perspective: “Eventually I was just like, screw that. I’m going to be me. Take it or leave it. If that means stupid jokes every now and then, or being sarcastic — that’s who I am. People don’t always get it, and I kept feeling this pressure to be more polite, more affable, more friendly. But after a point I realised it’s not sustainable in the long run. It took a toll on me.”

Penty says it was a tipping point. “If you don’t want to give me a film because of the kind of person I am, then it doesn’t matter to you what kind of actor I am. And that’s fine. I was finally able to say: I’m going to be myself. It may mean not being liked by too many people, but I’ve made peace with that.”

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